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Body Art

So you’re thinking of altering your body?  Tattoos on nearly every part of the body are extremely popular. From someone who knows, I’m here to tell you some things you might want to think about before presenting your skin to be decorated. 

Maybe you’ve wanted one for a long time or maybe you just wandered into a tattoo shop and saw something on the wall, but you just don’t know how to go about it or are scared.  My first advice to you is WAIT.  Not forever, but for a while.  The most common problem with any body modification is that 6 months after you get it, you hate it and you are oh so stuck with it.   If you’ve decided that you really want something, try it out first.  Find the picture you want and hang it on the wall, somewhere in plain sight (so you have to see it every day), for six months.   Maybe try a henna tattoo, you will probably find it difficult to get the exact design you want, but it’s the fact that it stays awhile that is the point of the exercise.  If it’s a piercing you are considering, buy some fake jewelry and wear it every day (yes, even in the shower).

You can buy fake jewelry at most any place.  A good suggestion is any alternative clothing store, a head shop or even the mall.  As for the henna tattoo, that might be a bit tricky depending on where you live.  Most tattoo shops will do henna tattoos, but not all.  Henna is a plant used in India to dye things, even skin.  The art of Mehndi is using this henna paste to create tattoos that are temporary, but longer lasting than something drawn or painted on.  They put the paste on your skin and let it sit for a couple of hours.  It dries and you wash it off and you are “stained” in whatever design you have chosen.  It stays anywhere from a week to a month depending on the type of paste, skin type, how often you wash the area.  It is a good “test” before getting a tattoo.  It shows you what it’s like to wake up every morning and look at something in the spot you want a real tattoo.

You also need to consider the impact on your life.  Yes, we all know it’s your body, your decision, but…  there are other things to think about.  First off…your mother will hate it (unless you happen to have one that has more than you do, but that is usually rare).   Body art still has a huge social stigma attached to it that some people think only bikers and white trash have tattoos.   When showing off your tattoo or piercing in social situations, you know there will be some there that have it go through the back of their mind that you must use drugs or be irresponsible or be a bad parent or have bad upbringing.  Whereas the rest of us know that’s not true, that opinion is still out there.  Getting something in less conspicuous areas (yes, stay away from the facial tattoos) might be something to consider depending on social duties and employment issues.   You also need to talk it over with your significant other or even your children.  Being free to express yourself is great, but not at the expense of someone else or their feelings.  It doesn’t mean you can’t do it if they don’t agree, but put forth effort to make them feel comfortable with it.

OWWWWWWWWWWW…yes, it really does hurt.  Anyone who says it doesn’t, lies.  No, it’s not unbearable, if it was do you think so many people would have them?  Tattoo pain feels like a cat scratch…that searing, almost burning feeling.  It’s very hard to describe as I’ve never had that kind of pain come from any other source.  Piercing doesn’t hurt at all.   Half a second and it’s all over with.  It’s the soreness and swelling and aching for 2-3 weeks afterwards that is what hurts.  You have to consider this as well.  Don’t get halfway through a tattoo and decide you can’t take it anymore.  Not only will your artist be upset, you’ll have half a tattoo for the rest of your life.   If you have a low pain tolerance and you still want a tattoo, I suggest something small and go to a very good tattoo artist (who will generally be faster and help relax you a bit).

Now comes the research part.  The not-so-fun but absolutely necessary part of this adventure.  Who are you going to get to do it?  A friend, someone a friend has told you about, or just find one in the phone book.  Any of those options are ok, as long as you ask the right questions.  You need to find an informed, friendly (yes, this is important as you sit through pain), and health conscious artist.   You also need to find someone that does art in the style that you like.  Remember the ARTIST part of tattoo artist.  Everyone will draw the same picture differently, you must choose which style you will like the best.  Look at their artwork, look at the tattoos they have done, and even ask them to draw you a picture.  Some may charge an art fee, but if you want a good tattoo, it’s worth the $25 or so that it may cost.  There is no excuse for bad body art, if you can’t afford a good artist, wait. 

Next time, health risks, safety concerns and what you should know before you go.

Dinky  

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