I thought I would write you to express my sincerest gratitude for the service you run. It may sound corny, but SexyAds really did change my life and I wanted to share my story with the readers of your online magazine. Besides, writing is kind of a hobby of mine and I thought this might be fun. So here goes.

To be honest with you, I was shattered when my husband, Dale, walked out on me. We had been married for five years and, so far as I knew, we were happy together. Okay, so our sex life wasn’t great, but that wasn’t entirely my fault. Dale was the kind of guy who liked to stick to a routine and hardly what you’d call adventurous. After a while, sex became a bit ‘same old, same old’ but, when I tried to discuss this with him, he didn’t want to know.

As he never complained about things in bedroom, I was shocked to the core when he came home from work one Wednesday night and announced that he was moving out. He told me – without too much concern for how it might make me feel – that he was having an affair with a woman he met at the squash court. I asked how long it had been going on, but he would not say.

And that, as they say, was the end of that.

Dale was out of the house by the following weekend, leaving me alone, angry, confused and, I don’t mind telling you, emotionally distraught. My confidence was shot to pieces. I felt used and worthless.

For the next couple of months, I went into my shell. I would often burst into tears at work, and I moped about my apartment like a walking corpse on the weekends.

Then, like a bolt from the blue, I decided it was time to pick up the pieces, to move on. I told myself that Dale was just an asshole and it wasn’t worth living my life in misery. Besides, I was getting to the point where I really wanted to start having sex again.

When a friend told me about these web sites where you could place personal ads as a way of meeting men, I didn’t really take her seriously at first. But, I have to admit, by now I was becoming very horny and curiosity eventually got the better of me.

So I got on the net and went surfing. I checked out heaps of sites, but SexyAds seemed the best for what I was looking for. Initially, all I wanted was to have a bit of fun and maybe get laid with the right guy. 

The thing I liked best about SexyAds was that I could stay completely anonymous with my made-up nickname. So no-one would know who I really was unless I wanted them to. Plus, when I emailed their staff for advice on how to approach things, they got back to me right away.

I took up a free membership with the site, which was great just to get a taste of what was on there. But, after a few weeks, I realised that I wanted to see and do everything they had to offer. So I joined up as a paid member. At first, I felt a bit self-conscious about paying money to meet men, but the way I figured it, I had been wined and dined my whole life and it was kind of like giving something back.

And it turned out to be money well spent.

In the first week, I got talking to this guy named Henry in the chat room and then we started sending emails to one another. I found out he was 42, also fairly recently separated and living only about 30 miles out of Chicago.

By the second week, I agreed to meet him and boy I was glad I did.

Now this is where things start to get a bit raunchy. Henry had the biggest dick I had ever seen – way bigger than Dale’s – and he showed me what really great sex was all about. For the next month or so, we met three times a week and we went at it like crazy. Often we’d still be pleasuring each other when the sun was coming up.

Speaking of coming, Henry gave me my first multiple orgasm. It was unbelievable and I couldn’t get enough of it. I was like an animal let out of a cage. It was pretty much all I thought about at work and I could hardly wait for the next time I’d have him inside me again.

Now, I’d be lying to you if I told you that it was love at first sight between me and Henry, though I suppose that raw physical attraction could be considered a form of love. Certainly, our love for one another evolved from there. I thought all I wanted was sex but, after a while, I realised that I also really enjoyed Henry’s company out of the bedroom. He knows how to treat a lady and he has the most wonderful sense of humour.

We have been together for almost two years now and we are still having really awesome sex. But there’s also a lot of bellylaughs too and it’s great to have someone to share the ups and downs with. Actually, I can’t imagine what life would be like without him.

So, to any women out there who are worried or nervous about using an adult personals site to meet guys, my advice is simple: “Just go for it, sister!”

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