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VI: Take Time to Get a Good Picture.
Part
of the the 10 Commandments of Using Sex Personals
by Tony Alvarez of www.adultpersonalsguide.com
Just as is the case with trying to meet a woman at a bar or dance club,
women in sex personals are still greatly outnumbered by men and
therefore have the luxury of being highly selective. Because women have so
many guys to choose from, they will stick only with those who have included pics
in their ads and responses.
The quality of your pic will greatly determine your success with sex
personals. Don't be discouraged if you consider yourself unattractive.
Ever notice how great looking guys can look terrible in a photo,
whereas slobs can look pretty good if the photo is well planned?
Here I provide
strategies to ensure your photo scores you all the points it
can.
Your main pic in your Sexy Ads profile should be no worse than PG-rated.The
reason is free members cannot view X rated photos, so you'll immediately be
eliminating a large portion of the women you could potentially be
meeting if you choose to use a more risqué photo. You can mention in your
message that you have other pics available.
Include a picture that somehow shows your face. For some reason
guys seem to think that if they send only a close-up shot of their cock that any
and all women will be sold on it. Truth is the majority of women will require
a face shot at some point prior to meeting. A person's face says a lot
about his character and helps a woman decide whether she can trust him
and feel safe while on a date.
Include an action shot. Ever notice that when some people deliberately
pose for the camera they look much more unattractive than in real life?
The reason is often because their smile is forced and unnatural. Your most
attractive smile will appear when you are generally happy and having
fun, so next time you are out for a night on the town with your friends, bring a
camera. Tell them in advance what you are planning so they'll be
ready to snap you when the time is right.
Take advantage of the fact that women are competitive. Continuing
on the above scenario, it is best to have a girl with you who is more
attractive than yourself, although not a blatant mismatch. The two of you can be
giving each other a friendly hug, cheek to cheek, smiling for the
camera. Then cut her half out of the picture so she can't be identified but
leave enough of her there so anyone who sees your pic realizes you normally
associate with and are worthy of attractive women.
If you happen to be at a beach, ski resort, or other desirable
location, get pictures of yourself there. Women love to travel and are intrigued
by a guy with a sense of adventure.
If you are well built, integrate the two ideas above into this one.
While standing on the beach with the ocean in the background or at a local
pool, have a hot girl in a bikini stand next to you in the photo and then cut
most of her out of it. Be sure to pump your muscles beforehand by doing
several sets of pushups, but preferably not while others are watching.
If you are married and concerned about being discrete, don't include
any identifying photos in your ad. Instead pursue women outside your
immediate area and tell her initially you have a face shot you can send her at a
later time.
If you are out of shape and have an attractive face, just include a
face shot.
If you are out of shape and have an unattractive face, include a
clothed full body shot, wearing clothes that spell success. Women are
attracted to successful confident men so try wearing some nice black dress pants,
newly shined black shoes, and a stylish semi-casual dress shirt.
Use some sunless tanning lotion to bring some color to your face and be sure you have an
up-to-date hairstyle that suits you.
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While you shouldn't include a cock shot as your only photo, you may
want to have such a pic handy for some of the more hardcore women you
meet, especially if your package is one that will score you some extra points.
If you are going to include a cock shot, be sure to shave your shaft and
balls and neatly trim the hair up on top. This will give the illusion that
your cock is both cleaner and up to an inch longer, depending upon how
wild and free you let your hair grow beforehand.
Be sure to take a bunch of photos of yourself following my advice and
surely at least one of them will be a winner. If you end up with a lot of
great photos that you can't decide between, get them judged for free by
100s of women at www.hotornot.com.
If you liked the advice contained within this article, this is just the
tip of the iceberg, with lots more advice at www.adultpersonalsguide.com.
Here you can read the remaining nine commandments of using sex
personals as well
as detailed case studies that will allow you to learn from my two years
of experiences with sex personals.
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