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We
have been getting a lot of advice questions on
how to kiss. People have been asking what is the
proper way to kiss and how does one French kiss
properly. We have provided you with some tips on
how to kiss properly, giving you some ideas on
what to expect and how to make that romantic
moment the best it can be.
Kissing
is probably the most physically romantic two
people can get. There really is no wrong way to
kiss. The thing to remember is that everybody
kisses differently and different people prefer
different ways of kissing. Some people, believe
it or not, are appalled at the idea of French
Kissing or using your tongue while you kiss.
While others can't imagine kissing without using
your tongue. The thing is to try kissing that
person a few times before deciding how you and
your partner prefer kissing and to get used to
the way that person kisses.
A
first kiss should always be done while the two
of you are alone. This will help to avoid any
unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing
situations. The best type of kiss is one that
uses different variations, such as starting with
a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe
sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip,
then trying the other two types. And don't just
leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks,
their chin or their eyelids. This can be very
seductive and romantic.
The
perfect kiss is one that is done with someone
you really care about. There is more caring and
sincerity in a kiss with someone special than
with someone you hardly know, although a really
good kiss can certainly bring two people closer
together.
A
lot of people have been writing to us on how to
overcome the fear of kissing someone. Our answer
would be to not kiss that person right away.
Wait until an attraction builds between the two
of you and a romantic situation evolves. Go out
with the person a couple of times before having
that first kiss.
Basic
Kissing Tips
Great
Breath
- This is very important. Make sure you brush
your teeth before going out on your date. There
is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad
breath. If your date consists of having
something to eat before the actual kiss, make
sure you have a mint on hand to take right after
you finish eating. Don't take the mint just
before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want
to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist
Lips - You want your lips to be slightly
moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your
lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss
because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want
your partner to wear it too after the kiss.
Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your
lips over your partner's and gives both you and
your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning
- Stand close to your partner. As the two of you
move closer together tilt your head slightly to
one side. If you don't, don't worry about
it. Your partner will still tilt their
head slightly so your lips meet on a slight
angle or they will kiss you straight on.
If you can see which way your partner's head is
tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite
direction.
Close
Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close
your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their
eyes open during the kiss. But until you know
what your partner prefers, it is best to close
your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open,
looking into one another's eyes while you kiss,
can be very erotic and some people find it quite
enjoyable. You may want to try kissing
this way once you're more comfortable kissing
your partner.
Open
Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place
your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold
your breath! Breath through your nose. As your
lips meet, press them gently over your
partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a
slow, circular motion or just leave them still
over your partners.
Closed
Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd
give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening
your mouth when your lips meet, keep them
closed. This is also a good way of letting your
partner know this is as far as it goes. It also
makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great
first time kiss if you're nervous.
Hands
- There are many ways you can use your hands
during a kiss. The most popular way is to
put one hand on your partner's waist and the
other one against the middle of their back.
Other ways to use your hands are to cup your
partner's face in your hands (very romantic!),
put them around your partner's neck, put them
around their waist, hold your partner's upper or
lower arms gently, run your finger's through
their hair, or just hold their hands in yours.
French
Kissing
This
is the most popular type of kiss. This involves
touching your tongue with your partner's and it
can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a
few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open
Lips - Open your lips "slightly"
more than you would during a regular kiss. This
makes it easier to place your tongue in your
partner's mouth.
Tongue
- Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of
your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue
too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can
play with their tongue by circling theirs with
your own, running the tip of your tongue along
theirs, darting your tongue in and out of their
mouth teasingly, or running the tip of your
tongue along their teeth or roof of their mouth.
If all else fails and you're still unsure of
what to do, just use your tongue the way your
partner uses theirs. Have fun with it! Explore!
Lips
- You may explore different ways of using your
tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over
your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently,
just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck
Kissing
This
can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of
French Kissing with your mouth open, while your
partner's lips are parted suck on their top our
bottom lip with your own, just for a second or
two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try
the other lip.
Nip
Kissing
This
type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when
done correctly can create a wonderful effect on
your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite
their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt
your partner. This kiss should only be done with
someone that you've kissed a few times before,
otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise
Kissing
This
type of kiss is done when your partner is lying
down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or
just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly
approach your partner and place a small, very
gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss
until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
Vaccuum
Kissing
This
is a playful kiss. While in an
open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you're
sucking the air from your partner.
Cordial
Kissing
Take
a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or
something sweet, and then when your lips meet
pour the drink in your partner's mouth.
Only take a very small sip.
Butterfly
Kissing
Put
your eye really close to your partner's cheek
and flutter your lashes upon their skin.
You can also do this on their lips.
Melt
Kissing (from visitor's email)
Pass
an ice cube back and forth in mouth while French
kissing.
Marathon
Kissing (from visitor's email)
See
how long you can kiss for (try 5 - 10 minutes
straight)
Glowstick
Frenzy (from visitor's email)
Pass
the mini mouth glowstick back and forth (same
thing as melt kissing).
Tongue
Sucking (from visitor's email)
When
you have the chance to get really deep into your
partners mouth, suck on their tongue as far as
you can. Don't suck too hard, you
don't want to hurt your partner. Otherwise
it's very pleasing!
Candy
Kiss (from visitor's email)
Use
either a Jolly Rancher or some type of hard
candy/mint. Either you or your partner
place the candy in your/their mouth and
then it is like a game of keep away.
Whoever starts tries to keep the candy in their
mouth while the other person tries to get
it in theirs. But you can only use your
tongue and lips. This can be very fun if
you have the right partner!!! Enjoy.
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