For the last two weeks, I have asked
readers to send in their most original, innovative, and unique
sexual techniques and positions. What I received was a true
plethora of things I did not ask for! (smile) I received a
number of strange places where you all have had sex, and a lot
of you told me your favorite positions (hey, I already covered
this topic. Twice!) What I wanted to provide here was a public
service to the readers. Perhaps some new ideas to try out. New
positions. New techniques. New exercises. And above all else,
new experiences.
Well, after two weeks of pleading, here
lie the four (4) that I decided to publish. Each one either
came with a name, or if no name was included, I made one up
myself.
But first, as a bonus, here is an
exercise called "The Kundalini Massage", taken from
the book Massage for Lovers by Nitya Lacroix, from my
private library. This technique requires making love from a
sitting position, and if done even remotely correct, it can
help to provide a mind-blowing orgasmic experience. Take my
word on this one (wink).
The Kundalini Massage
The kundalini exercises which form part of
the yogic tradition of Tantra are usually taught by a Tantric
teacher and may involve many months or even years of
preparation and practice. They are part of a spiritual way of
life, and students need guidance through each stage of the
energy-transforming meditations.
The massage suggested here is named
kundalini massage because it helps you to release tensions
from the spine while making love so that it becomes flexible
and more able to transport the orgasmic waves of pleasure
through the entire nervous system.
1. If you are making love in a sitting
position on the bed or floor, the woman should wrap her legs
around her man's pelvis or place her feet onto the firm
surface to give her support. Begin to sway gently as if to
uncoil the sexual vibrations and send them spiraling up
through your spine. Both partners can massage each other's
spines simultaneously or in turn, working the fingertips in
tiny rotations on one spot at a time along the edges of the
vertebrae from the sacrum to the top of the neck. Give extra
attention to any areas that remain tense and unyielding, while
your partner directs breath to that part. After massaging the
spine, stroke your hands over the scalp and up through the
hair as if releasing the rising sensations out through the top
of the head.
2. When the whole back and spine is
loosened and the sexual energy is reaching a peak, abandon
yourselves to the joy of sex. Let your breath take on its own
momentum as you sway and vibrate with ecstasy. Remember that
all the breathing, movement, and massage while making love can
release some powerful sensations and feelings. You may find
yourself making sounds, laughing, or perhaps crying. Give
yourself permission to express your responses uninhibitedly
and you will feel wonderfully liberated.
3. If you are moving spontaneously
toward orgasm, and if this is what you both desire, let go
into the climax. However, if you wish to prolong your
lovemaking and take it into another dimension, let the waves
of orgasmic energy roll back into a calm lull before surging
toward another crest. Either way, hold each other and stay
emotionally and physically connected. Breath together and feel
your hearts beating as the energy subsides. Melt into each
other's arms.
And from the readers (unedited)...
"The Pretzel"
The best position and off the wall on, at
least to me. It requires flexibility from the female and
stamina from the male and last a couple of minutes tops. The
results are very pleasureful for both partners. My preference
is to do in bed for the cushioning factor of the bed itself.
First, you approach the doggy-style position( the female on
fours, male ready to mount). The guy then takes each the
females ankles and a doubles her legs up towards her back as
he crosses them at the same time. Then, the guy inserts his
junk into the female, minding that now he has her knees
straddling his waist. Now, the male reaches both hands under
the females arms and around to grasp the females shoulders in
a hunched over way. Finally, the male starts to pound away
using the her shoulders as leverage. In the position the guy
experiences the tight clenching of the pussy and the female
gets the proper stokage within. If performed right, Climaxes
and orgasms are easily found. This is the "Pretzel"
- named from crossing up positioning of the woman. I LOVE
IT!!!!!
"Stop Me Before You Pass
Out"
well here it goes what i call stop me
before you pass out. first you need a double vibrating egg
second i put one of the eggs inside your vigina making sure it
is stimulating your G spot third I place the second vibrating
egg directly under your clit fourth I lift the hood of your
clit with my other hand and lick the upper part of your clit
fifth keep licking and vibrating you till you either beg me to
stop or you pass out
"Standing"
As far as positions, I like to stand on the
floor, by the edge of the bed, with her bottom right at the
edge of the bed. She can then place her legs on my shoulders.
This allows me to watch her face and her chest, and leaves my
hands available to wander also. It also allows me to lift her
hips and have access for a little anal action. All but one of
the ladies I've done this position with enjoy it.
"Head By Ankles"
A good and interesting sexual position is
always when the woman has her head by her ankles. Standing up
or laying down is good.