Are
My Boobs Too Small?
An insult leads to Jenn's
question.
Edited from an article by Jenn
Even at www.e-crap.com
I recently received an invitation
from a stripper friend to a "very happening and sexy" holiday
party being thrown by the strip club’s owner. How could I
pass on that one?
The party was strange. It more resembled a Halloween party
than a Christmas party. The guests included many strippers,
many guys who seemed to be investment banker-types, and a
few other seedy characters.
One of them was named Tony, and he looked every bit a Tony.
He had slicked-back hair, a Guido-outfit, and the most annoying
personality. For whatever reason, he kept following me around.
He assumed I was a stripper (I certainly looked the part that
night), and I did nothing to convince him otherwise. He was
in some form of porn business, and he was sure I had a future:
"Though maybe the tits could
be a little bigger," he remarked.
I smiled, nodded, and told him
my pimp was watching me from across the room (I pointed),
and I probably shouldn’t be talking about such things, and
excused myself. I found the closest mirror, just to confirm
what I already knew – my tits looked just fine!
While I never really thought about Tony again after that night,
I was told about a website, www.givemeboobs.com. A seemingly
normal, 35 year old woman in New York State (with children
and an adorable 4-month-old cocker spaniel) was asking for
donations from readers so that she could get a boob job.
Her bio states that she just left an emotionally abusive marriage,
where her husband continually ridiculed the size of her breasts,
especially after she had children. It seemingly left her feeling
bad about her appearance, and her sexuality. And she felt
to get back that sexuality, she needed to increase the size
of her breasts.
Being the journalist that I am, I knew I needed to contact
her. I had questions to ask her, and I wanted to know more
about her quest. Honestly, I wanted to sit down with her,
and find out a little more about her from a humanistic viewpoint.
Fortunately, it was easy to contact
her, and equally fortunate was that it turned out she loved
the E-Crap.com website! She was willing to answer all of my
questions, and here is what we discussed.
Jenn: What has the feedback generally been like since your
site went live?
Aimee: Well, as probably presumed, most of the emails I've
received have been from the male gender. Most commenting on
"not" changing a thing, that I look fine the way I am. A few
actually asked to meet and go out. A small group offered their
honest and considerate opinions; those are mainly the ones
that have shown their support by donating. The females on
the other hand haven't been as gracious (which I expected).
Their comments have been mostly negative and somewhat harsh
in the way they were presented.
Jenn: Has anyone said or written anything that has made you
consider shutting the site down?
Aimee: Not really, I truly knew going into this that there
would be an abundance of varying opinions. Which I have to
say I enjoy reading. I did not expect everyone to support
nor fully understand my quest and the reasons why.
Jenn: Use five (5) separate words to describe yourself.
Aimee: Trustworthy. Loyal. Independent. Intelligent. Caring.
Jenn: Have you ever considered contacting Howard Stern for
implants, since he tends to give away a set pretty much every
day?
Aimee: A few of the emails I've received also suggested contacting
Howard Stern. I was worried that Howard, like Hustler magazine
(which contacted me for an interview), would want full photos
including my face or person to person meetings. One thing
I strongly considered when developing the site, was my anonymity.
I will not waiver, barter, or change my mind on that. Even
if it means losing the opportunity to receive extensive publicity
or maybe even the actual implants. I will remain strong on
that respect to protect myself and most importantly my children.
Jenn: If my column sends you enough donations, will you consider
letting me release exclusive before/after photos?
Aimee: As I mentioned, I feel very strongly about my anonymity.
I do not have any problem with supplying you with before/after
photos; they however would not include my face. I do realize
that that in turn can discourage those from donating, but
I'm sorry to say, that is something I am not willing to compromise.
Jenn: I have often written my thoughts on this subject, but
why do YOU think many men put a high emphasis on a woman's
chest size?
Aimee: Jenn, I certainly am no therapist, and the only comments
I had ever received in regards to my chest, were "Why on earth
did he bother giving you anything!" of course that was from
my ex. Which I can see now, was no "real" man? I think that
magazines, commercials, etc..., portray these women to seem
as if they're more poised, secure, and happier with themselves.
That's not to say that it is entirely due to "their rack",
but I'm sure it helps. This in turn turns the man on, not
only seeing the nice cleavage, but the confidence that she
emits I'm sure is also very attractive and alluring.
Jenn: Do you feel bigger breasts will equate to better sex?
Aimee: In my opinion, I guess if a woman feels better about
her body, then that would minimize the thoughts of inadequacy
during sex. She would perhaps then concentrate more on her
sexual desires, feel more sensual, and as I'd like to think;
put her mind and body entirely into the pleasure, experience,
and excitement of having sex.
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