How to Use a Vibrator

Start Alone

And don't rush
Set aside a whole evening, afternoon or even morning. Experienced vibrator users know what they like and can pleasure themselves quickly. They even like quickies, but for the first few pleasure sessions, you need the time to explore your body to find out what you like. And keep in mind that different moods may call for different types of stimulation, which is why it's good to own more then one vibe. They're not expensive and you can order almost anything anonymously online.

Set the mood
Try taking a nice warm bubble bath, set a warm comfortable atmosphere in the room that you'd like to do this in; light candles, play relaxing music. If the bathroom is the only place, then make sure you have a waterproof vibe so you can play in tub. Read a dirty book, watch a dirty movie, or just kick back and visualize you're in your favorite fantasy.

Let's start!

Explore all the different parts of your genitals. Make sure you have a bottle of lubrication available and apply a generous amount to your genitals, toys, hands, fingers or whatever you'll be inserting or rubbing against your body. It will help slide cock rings on with ease. It causes less friction when any vibe is touching the genitals and it's absolutely necessary when penetrating vagina and anus.

Women
Rub it between your vaginal lips. Touch your clit with it, apply more pressure if you'd like. Press it against your perineum, the small area between your vagina and anus. Try holding it against your anus. If it's a penetrative vibe, insert it into your vagina. Wiggle it around in there, explore your vagina. Try different depths of penetration. Hold it just at the opening of the vagina. If there's a larger head at the tip of the vibrator, try very shallow penetrations with just the tip. If you have a g-spot vibe, experiment with twisting it around in your vagina to hit all the different spots.

Men
Hold it against and between your testicles. Try running it down the shaft of your penis. Hold it up to your anus and press it against your perineum. That will externally stimulate your prostate. If you have a cock ring, experiment with the different speeds. Stroke your penis and squeeze your testicles. If you normally masturbate, do it the way you usually do and see if the vibrations enhance it at all. If you're using a vibrating sleeve, make sure you use a good amount of lube so you don't rub yourself raw from thrusting in and out.

Positions?
Lie on your back and hold the vibrator on your genitals or penetrate yourself while your on your back. Lay on the vibe, straddle the vibe. Put the vibe on your genitals and squeeze your thighs and butt cheeks together, then release. This causes quite an erotic buildup. Some women use this method to climax. It could be very powerful. You can lay still just holding it against your clit or you can move your hips sort of riding it.

Not just the pink bits!
You can move the vibrator around to other parts of your body. Relax and breathe deeply. Concentrate on what you're feeling. The genitals aren't the only erogenous zones. This is also good to do, if you don't want to climax right away.

Use Other Methods For Stimulation At The Same Time
Use your hands, fingers or other toys to stimulate yourself. If you have an external vibe, penetrate your vagina with your fingers. Rub your anus, stroke your penis, squeeze your nipples, rub your vaginal lips, squeeze your testicles. It's very enhancing to incorporate other forms of stimulation with a vibrator and it's a great way to get to know your sexual likes and dislikes

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