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Valentines Day - Seduction by Chocolate

"Seduction is best sipped and savoured slowly"

Valentines Day celebrations are often met with a groan instead of a celebration of love, romance, sensuality and sexuality.  Valentines Day is seen by singles as a time for lovers and couples and by marrieds as a soppy time reserved for besotted singles, without ties and children. The focus of Valentines Day in the media is pure commercial hype designed to sell as many products as possible, to beautiful young, single heterosexual couples. Truth is, Valentines Day is none of these things.

Its origins hark back to the Roman empire with a history that's as rich and torrid as love itself. A tale of an annual pagan harvest festival, where young women wrote their names on slips of paper and placed them in urns; young men drew names at random, and the pair would then be coupled during the festival, and of Italian Bishop 'Valentine' who clandestinely married young lovers against Claudius II express wishes, and had himself clubbed and beheaded for his treachery, later heralded as a Christian saint and martyr.

Valentines Day is not just about courting, love, and romance, it's also about sensuality, seduction and FOOD! Not just any food, but a particular food, no stranger to lovers, and very addictive; chocolate. At the top of the list of romantic gift giving again in 2001 is, you guessed it, chocolates!

In the United States A box of Godiva Chocolates rates top of the gift givers list. In Australia, Belgian Chocolates are the expected best gift. Hand made chocolates are unequalled. So why chocolate? Chocolate is romantic, sensual and sexual. Advertisers have used sexual lures to sell chocolates for years on television. Look at Ferrero Roche and the lovers in the car..

Chocolate doesn't discriminate. It doesn't matter whether you are bisexual, celibate, married or an Anti-Valentine who thinks that "Valentine's Day is designed to make sane, happy people feel like there's something missing from their lives and cupid is just some fat guy in a nappy"

Chocolate makes everyone feel good. Natural substances in the cocoa bean -caffeine, methylxanthine and theobromine act as stimulants, making us feel energised. Chocolate is actually good for us!

Alan Turner, Senior Lecturer in haematology at the Melbourne Institute of Technology says "it appears to provide protection against cardiovascular disease, is also believed to be high in polyphenolo antioxidants, reducing the risk of cancer and heart disease"

"Myths denigrating chocolate are being disproved" says Alister Haigh, joint managing director of Haighs Chocolates in Adelaide, South Australia.  The cacao tree’s botanical name, Theobroma cacao, pays homage to its mythical origins. When translated theobroma means "Food of the Gods." The famous historic figures Casanova and Madame DuBarry both believed that chocolate was conducive to romance. Nuns were forbidden to enjoy the pleasures of chocolate because of it's sexual reputation. Priests, however were allowed to consume it without constraint.

Chocolate is an unique food. Comparatively speaking, a 1.5 oz. milk chocolate bar with peanuts supplies more protein, calcium and riboflavin than a banana, a carrot, an orange, or an apple.  Nearly 400 beans are required to make a pound of chocolate liquor, the semi-liquid mass produced by grinding the beans. Chocolate liquor is non-alcoholic and the basis for all cocoa products.

The chocolate industry is a $8.2 billion industry. Americans consume roughly 2.8 billion pounds of chocolate a year, or more than 11 pounds per person. According to a Gallop survey, chocolate is the number one flavour, surpassing all other leading flavours, including vanilla, by a 3-to-1 ratio. An Opinion Research Corp. survey revealed that the majority of Americans would rather enjoy and share the wonderful experience of eating chocolate with their loved ones than such celebrities as George Bush.

Chocolate contains phenyl ethylamine (PEA) a chemical that our bodies release when we feel a powerful attraction. PEA, also called the "Molecule of Love" is a natural amphetamine that our own body produces. Romance is thought to cause it to flood areas of the brain that are ordinarily activated during sexual excitement, further stimulating sexual desire and pleasure. Not surprisingly, high PEA levels are found in the bloodstreams of lovers, accounting for the limerance that affects them both.

Since ancient times, suitors have bought chocolates along with bouquets of roses to the woman of their dreams. Perhaps it is no accident that the giving of a box of chocolates has become a traditional part of courtship rituals and of Valentines Day around the world. Traditionally chocolate has always been eaten from a box. For more daring lovers, Chocolate can be prepared fresh, as a sauce and spread all over your lovers clean, naked body and then slowly removed, lick by slow, luscious lick.

Chef Al has prepared a wicked Chocolate Sauce recipe, especially for SexyAds members: This is what you will need:

150ml double cream. (heavy cream)
1 tbsp. castor sugar. (granulated sugar)
150gr. chocolate (cut into small pieces)
30ml liqueur (rum, whiskey, cointrea, tia maria, etc)

Boil cream and sugar. Take off heat and stir in choc pieces until melted and add favourite liqueur. Pour into jar and cool. Will last up to 10 days in fridge. Put sauce into a small squeeze bottle for easy pouring and artistic flow. Use a large powder puff and icing sugar and/or some slices of fresh fruits, placed in strategic places for more tasty sensations. You can use white or dark chocolate, depending on your own 'taste' and the colour required. Note: If kept in fridge for some time, you may need to reheat to liquid consistency.

You have been seduced. You have seduced. And you enjoyed every lick and slurp along the way.

DocHunny

 

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