Every Man's Fantasy? What About Women?

As chosen by all of you, here is the "reader's choice" column. I hope I don't disappoint, since I have been getting quite a few e-mails asking where this column has been. Okay, so maybe I was a week late. But since I wanted to write about autoerotic asphyxiation, I thought it was a natural topic to follow masturbation. Which would mean a column about orgies must be next week!

Before I start writing a column, I generally research the topic in several ways. Searching the Internet is one way, and reaching out to my good friends at www.sexyads.com and Yahoo is another. This week, I'm pretty much going at it solo, and without a net. Why? Well, since so many of you have been anticipating this column, I didn't want to leak anything out, so I did not approach my research friends. And I tried the Internet, but any search on the subject merely gave me hundreds (thousands?) of porno sites! Trust me, if you're into sex with multiple partners, there is a website for whatever fetish you might have!

So I needed an angle. I decided to share a little, and talk about me first. Then all of you. Truth is, I have never "technically" participated in threesome sex, though I once "dabbled" in it. Here's the story of my brush with multiple partners...

Several years ago, in my younger and wilder days (and my last year of college), I had a good friend named Lisa (who will kill me for using her real name, but if I am fair game, so is she, right?) Anyway, for whatever reason, she always seemed to have a steady boyfriend, and I rarely did. I liked to play the field, so to speak. I'm not sure what sparked the conversation, but we were hanging out in a park near the campus, drinking wine coolers of some sort (I believe), and we started to talk about sex. To this day, I have still never been with another female, though I do not rule it out (remember the Mulholland Drive reaction a few weeks ago) in the future. She was seeing a very cute, athletic guy at the time. If he hadn't been dating her, I would have been interested. Tom Cruise smile - enough said! She casually mentioned that he had suggested several times to bring another gal into the relationship, though she wasn't sure if he was serious or not. She jokingly asked me if I was interested. I told her no, but that I was just drunk enough to the point where I might consider teasing him a little.

I'm not sure if was his Tom Cruise smile, or truly the wine, but shortly after, we were heading straight to his off-campus studio apartment. It was warm, and we were dressed in shorts and light tops. We knocked on his door, and he was actually studying. Well, he did have a book in his hand when he answered. Lisa told him to sit on the futon which so exquisitely furnished the room (gag). She said she had a surprise for him. We both slowly approached him, and took off our tops. I was wearing a bra, Lisa was not. We could tell it was turning him on, and Lisa, topless, sat down next to him and started kissing him. God, he looked good that day. As he was kissing her, I saw him glance over at me, and Lisa waved her hand for me to join them. I went over and started stroking his hair. Yes, it was turning me on. Both touching him, and the thought that we were doing something very naughty. Then I sat down next to him, and reached into the elastic waistband of his shorts. He got so excited, his head jumped and he bit Lisa's lip. Lisa jumped back after being bitten, and was content to watch for a moment. She saw me reach into his shorts and lightly trace his raging hard-on through his briefs. I reached my other hand around his head, lightly pressing it towards me, and we kissed. On the lips, but he seemed nervous about what was going on. He kept looking over to Lisa for some sort of okay. It went no further. Even if he had been more receptive, that was my limit. I removed my hand, stood up, smiled, whispered "have fun" in his ear, and put my top back on. From what I remember hearing the next day, they shared a rather orgasmic lovemaking session.

Enough fantasy. My column is sounding more like a PG rated version of Penthouse Forum! Here is some reality. According to polls conducted at www.queendom.com, when asked whether they ever had sex with multiple partners at the same time, 71% of the men said no, and 73% of the women said no. Also, 12% of the men said they had several times, as opposed to 11% of the women. From a survey done by www.cybercollege.com of college students, 40% (male and female combined) said threesome sex was their number one fantasy. And the general feeling I got was that woman/woman/man was the preferred and accepted combination. And that a man/man/woman combination was considered more "slutty" and associated more with things like frat parties, drinking, gang-bangs, and other less flattering situations. 

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